Thank you Leonard! I’m so glad to hear you say that. My experience is gendered as a woman, but I *do* think this is a universal problem, and one that leaves men as confused and hurt as women, in relationships. I love seeing the comments from men who get that. And interested by the comments from men who clearly don’t. ;-) We’re all trying, we all want love and connection, and it’s fascinating how so many “traditional” societal expectations of “love” both demand yet almost make impossible real connection. Anyway, thanks again and glad it’s resonating with some men. ;-)